I would describe myself as:
Hi, I’m a middle age man with f all money , loads of young kids, can’t find time to meet you for a coffee, no interest in and too busy for a job, lotto looking increasingly unlikely , alcohol seems to be the answer but I’m open to suggestions on alternative drugs, I’d like to do more travel , if you feel this is your ideal man then don’t waste any time in contacting me ???
The main point being that I’ve been a sole parent raising my 3 children for many years now and it’s been ...... different !
I’ve been in a bit of a limbo (for longer than limbo should last) and I’m looking for an escape route, a rosy coloured road,,, course I’ve been busy and it’s been some ride ................ and it’s still happening and I wouldn’t change it for the world and I’ve had friends and met many more along the road and learnt lots and had some fun and tears.
I’m looking and have always been but not felt worthy or felt that I had what I expected a girl would want – who would want an atypical guy buried deep in parenting rather than work, having no time for wooing (anyone googling ! ? ) and romancing and all those walks along those beaches and bucket list travel to far flung places but answer me this – who travelled to France with the kids in a campervan this summer for 7 weeks !!, we did ? and we hit the road non stop all year to travel and meet up with friends around Ireland.
I like reading, playing guitar and banjo (only a bot !), campervanning, kayaking.
My children have reached ages where time is stretching back to me and I even thought lately about getting out jogging of an evening whilst they minded themselves at home for a little bit
I think, but I may be wrong, and often am, that a lady with kids of similar ages to mine would be the best fit for us all... not sure what else to say here but we may have the same escape strategies in mind ? so could take it from there ?
I’m looking for genuine, positive, not broken down by the system or at least repaired ?, happy and optimistic, willing and maybe interested in forging a decent life together for ourselves and children, creating adventures and memories and being active rather than passive in enjoying life.
If this generally grabs you then do not under any circumstances hesitate... dial 999 or message me.
My ideal partner would be:
... you :-)
My ideal date would be:
...Talk, drink, meal, dance :-)