I would describe myself as:
No a typical person but genuine.
Have 3 sides. The quiet & sweet side (I bake cookies and shite). The fun and crazy -in a good way- side..........and the side anyone would never want to see.
My ideal partner would be:
Confession: I have 2 reasons for dating online. First is obvious: I´m dating. Second: well, I´m doing some research for publishing. I´m an empath and truly fascinated by human behaviour, personal circunstances drop me here hence let´s be productive. People with personality disorders,- narcissist are my fav- are usually well trained hunters of flesh empaths like moi...yeah I know! they always have the upper hand during the first month(s) of online dating. Here you are some tips to do not give them as much time: They will ask you questions to learn everything about you, listen to you so carefully so that they can mirror you and tell you exactly what you need to hear. They are also well equipped from their past victims and after each discard they know one more new trick to hypnotize the new “soul mate”. They know from loads of experience about what they should not say during their love bombing phase...but no matter how much they learnt they always follow same path: I´ll protect you. I´m the most honest person you´ll ever meet. Dating online is exhausting. This is too good to be true. If you tell them you are A+B expect a turn back of his A+B+C+D and ha! try to overcome my resume woman =). Their fabricated personality usually describes a man who is an open minded, easy going, vulnerable and courageous enough to tear up, a man who will always there for you, spiritual, humble, romantic, well travelled kind man who knows about world cuisine and who has great relationships with people, who is such a charmer that cares about others. He doesn´t need a job but he has one to consume time and energy, of course! Leonard Cohen & Paulo Coelho are their best allies.
Anyway, it doesn´t matter I tell here how easily I could spot them from 48hrs to no last than a week, they will come over and over again to take their chances. My suggestion to others facing those poor souls online is: during your very first time, keep a daily journal which includes their actions only. The things that they did which meant something to you. Things that prove that they heard you but not just for impress you but understand what you mean. Write down if little things that make you who you are were taken into consideration or not, lie to them if its necessary and expect the bombing. You will no need more than a week, protect yourself meanwhile, do not believe a single word and wait ...they will show up their true self as if it was magic =)
My ideal date would be:
Come as you are, we´ll see.