We know that Kilkenny singles have a difficult time with
the dating game. In a small city like Kilkenny, it can be so hard to find
someone local that's right for you. But Kilkenny dating doesn't need to
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you need to do is send her an e-mail, and you'll recieve a reply like this:
I feel I am coming across way too needy to
men. They always seem to leave me as soon as they get to have sex. I really
want a relationship and would change everything in my life if I could get it. I
am 25 years old and would like to meet someone soon.
Well, first of all, it seems like you’re
getting out there and meeting people a lot, and that’s always the most
important first step towards a relationship — so keep that up. Secondly, finding
someone is obviously very important to you right now, and it’s great that
you’re clear about that and know what you want.
But sometimes eagerness can come across as
neediness, and that can often be perceived negatively at the start of a
relationship. Take a minute to think about how you act around the men who
leave. Do you put a lot of pressure on them to commit to a serious relationship
from the start? Do you tell them that you “would change everything” in your
life for the sake of a relationship?
If so, then that can be very intimidating.
People don’t want a partner who is solely dependent upon them for happiness — a
relationship should compliment your life rather than defining it. Make sure
that you’re filling your days with things that you enjoy, rather than just
pining after a relationship. The happier you are in yourself, the more
attractive a partner you’ll be.
And when it comes to sex, well, only you
know when the time is right. But take a minute to think about your attitude to
that as well. You say that they leave “as soon as they get to have sex” — you
deserve better than that. If you feel that someone only wants sex from a
relationship, then you probably don’t want to be in a long-term relationship
with this person. Don’t use sex as a means of trying to keep someone around. If
they’re worth the effort, they’ll be willing to wait until you’re ready, and
until the emotional connection — which is obviously what you really want —
So, Kilkenny singles, get started with AnotherFriend.com and
see how it can revolutionise your love life! Kilkenny dating has never
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