We should start with the fact that the current unemployment rate is over 12%, which means that if you already have a job you respect it and do whatever you can to maintain it.

I've been inspired to start this topic by one of my friends, she told me about her relationship were she is the one actually working and her boyfriend is constantly on the couch watching MTV. Everyday the daily news feeds us with the info regarding financial crisis and it should be a motivation for us to go out there and do our best not be left out. Therefore we you're a working professional and come home after 12 hours of working and find a 29 years old male on the couch as you left him in the morning you have all the rights to be annoyed! I'm not saying that this problems touches only the ladies, I'm sure guys can experience the same but I just wanted to show the sense of this whole situation.

You gain experience, meet new people and have a totaly different view on certain things. You hear from your friends about the new apratments or houses they are willing to buy splitting the mortgage between her and her partner and you get even more confused.

In the current economic climate we my say that being unemployed equals- assistance and financial support, but what if you don't actually need the assistance, you just want to sit around because it's easier than work or run from one interview to another.

If you don't see your partner doing the best he/she can to find a job and improve your household budget that the love crisis begins and is increasing every day. Your daily routines are different, you have the right to be tired, you don't have common topics, you simply don't have the support as the other person does not understand.

I only wish to highlight that we are analyzing the situation in which the person does not want to find job, which means finding the easiest way to survive.

I'm not sure how to sum this situation up but I just have the feeling that the relationship may not survive if both of the sides do not face the same day to day problems.