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13 January 2012
I think we just need to admit it !

 

My today's article was inspired by one of the episodes of 'Let's talk about love' by Niecy Nash.


She lists the 5 biggest mistakes ladies make in modern dating. At first I thought it's gonna be another complicated tactic that we have to implement while going out 'hunting' but I was wrong.


We've discussed it with my girl friends and all of us agreed on the following that we just can't control:


#5- Walk in the truth,
a lot of us are simply affraid to talk about our needs, believes, or what are our future plans and if the partner is included in them but maybe he/she doesn't know about that and we leave it that way?


#4-Date a man who wants the same thing you want
, at the begining we need to make a little research. Ask random questions about the idea of having kids, marriage etc. It's just an example every lady knows what is her main field of interest, BUT if every answer to your questions is totally different than what you think, that grab you bag and leave before both of you will make a mess in each other's lives as no one would want to compromise.


#3-Date for your priority not your preference
, we can't help looking for a dark hair George Clooney type, cause it's all about looks, but sometimes we need to go deeper than that, maybe the blonde guy has a lot more to offer in the romance,huh?


#2-Stop the drama
, if we wan't it or not, we are drama queens and 99% of guys who are not long-term husbands are affraid of the dramas and tears, so we simply need to start controling that part.


#1-Be what you want to see
, if you want your partner to support your hobbies and interests than support his hobbies and interests. Buy tickets for a sports event or order a football game on the cable TV. If you wanna go out with the girls, let him have a guys night out. It all needs to be equal to make a harmony.



These are my today's thought, simple,short but I think worth considering.

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