Older woman with younger man romance or marriage is not a matter of awe anymore. Many men have found love, harmony and happiness with women who are a bit older than them. Nowadays age is no more a criteria when it comes to matters of the heart. Earlier that was not the case and the woman involved in such a relationship was considered a cradle snatcher. Actually what makes guys attracted to older woman? The below mentioned may be some reasons or benefits of having a Cougar as partner.

16 years of diffrence. . .

Cougars are taboo. . .

This factor makes young men attracted to them. Our Society is used to see older men and younger woman more than the other way round and thereby offer more acceptance to such relationships. The normal tendency of people is that they want what they cannot have or what is a forbidden fruit'.

10 years of diffrence. . .

Sexual experience. . .

Believe it or not, some men date older women because they think they are simply better in bed. This is a myth, but I might as well put it out there. Our study showed that both genders believe that cougars are more sexually experienced (see chart below).

Older women are more likely to be set in their careers, and more likely to be established financially and emotionally. They are more in tune with their own bodies and sexual desires, and aren't afraid to express those desires. Older women are also more likely to orgasm than younger women, and the expectation is that they will be able to teach or indoctrinate younger men into more sensual pleasures.

Relationship with a mature woman means no drama. . . .

An older woman is probably more open minded.

As a general rule, older women are more open minded. They can take a dirtly joke, or critisim. They dont get offended as easily as the younger do.

People gain more confidence as they grow older. Many young men find older woman attractive as tend to be less superficial. A conversation with a mature lady can be interesting and intellectual whereas majority of younger woman tend to be silly, immature and sometimes shallow.

5 years of diffrence. . .

Older woman are independet and they know what they want. . .

Majority of older women is financially independent and has successful careers. Men like it when his partner is self-sufficient and self-supportive and dont need him to take care of her.

1) Photo !

It should be a good natural looking photo. Put on make-up and wear nice clothes. Make yourself look appealing and like someone you would want to get to know better. You need to look sexy and glamorous, just make sure it still looks like you not someone else. The better the photo the more profile views you will have.

2) Honest

Be honest about everything, especially in your profile. I know that it is tempting to shed a few pounds or years in your profile in an attempt to increase your profile views. You have to remember why you are here in the first place. It is to find your soul mate. Lying about things now will only come back to hurt you later. When you fill out your profile, use your real age, weight, height, and everything else.

3) Don't mention the ex!

Ok, so you may have just come out of a relationship and be feeling sad and lonely but don't write about it. It will put a lot of people off and you may come across desperate, which is not an attractive trait. Make online dating a new start for you and promise yourself not to dwell on past relationships.

4) Do not go overboard with your expectations!

You need somebody who likes eggs but not omelets, can dance but only the Watusi, eats Japanese food but doesn't use chopsticks because that would be too pretentious, will call you exactly four times per day, likes dogs but only Pomeranians and Dachshunds, must be earning over $300K/year... you don't want a man. You want a robot you can program.

5) Leave a bit of mistery

Keep your profile brief enough that it does not appear daunting when someone opens it up because it contains so much information, but include enough information for someone to get an idea of who you are. You don't need to fill in every fill-in-the-blank question (leave a little mystery), but be specific and thoughtful on the ones you have filled out.

The number of responses you get from other single members will depend mostly on the quality of your profile. We're presenting some tips, how to make your profile more attractive for other members.

1. Make sure that you have a good profile photo. Singles' profiles with photos get up to ten times more messages than those without. 'Good' photos are viewed even more. So don't post a photo of you in pajamas. Try to find one which shows you smiling, as such photos are more inviting and get more attention. An extremely important issue is the authenticity of the posted images. Please note that if you put the picture which is attractive, but it is a photo stolen from another website, you may temporarily increase the popularity of your profile, but it prevents you from arranging a real date!

2. Complete your profile. Anyone looking at your profile wants to get to know you. Tell about yourself and your interests.

3. The best on the top. Write your profile from the beginning to the end. Then read it carefully. Choose from it, what do you like most and place it in the first sentence. The first few sentences makes the biggest impression and impact on your perception of people in a certain way. If the first information for the visitor will not be interesting, probably will not read the rest of the profile.

4. Write about something that sets you apart. Describe this so that the person reading your profile could imagine it. Description of actions says more about you than the classic list of adjectives, like 'I'm funny and spontaneous'

5. Be honest. Your profile should be true and realistic. If you are not honest on your profile, that doesn't make a good impression!

6. Important are deeds, not words. Instead of writing that you have a sense of humour, show it in your description. Write text that enables the other person to say what kind of jokes you like, etc.

7. 'My ideal partner'. Write honestly what you want. Don't give the impression that nobody is good enough for you. Members may avoid profiles with too high expectations, as they are afraid of rejection.

8. Don't forget to fill out the optional profile questions. These will help other members get to know you even better.

Just remember, the better your profile describes you, the more likely it is that others will read and respond to it.

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'Meet me' is a proposal of profiles which we think you may be interested in. You can make a good first impression based on your profile picture.

How does it work?

It's simple, if you like a member's profile picture click YES, if you still need to reconsider click MAYBE. If you are not interested at all click NO. When another member clicks YES on your profile you will be notified.

You can check your picks under the 'You want to meet' list.

Also you can check which members clicked YES on your profile picture under the 'Want to meet you' list.

Mutual Match list shows profiles which you marked as interesting and vice verse.

With one click you can choose whether you're interested in that person and let her/him know about it.

Moreover, from here you can: contact this member, add him/her to the favourite list or view member's profile.

Where can you find 'Meet me' feature?

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It's quick and easy to use. What are you waiting for? Once you try it, you will love it.

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